Saturday, October 25, 2014

Never a dull moment in Costa Rica

Hey everyone! Things are going fantastic here in Costa Rica! As usual things are busy busy busy and time got away from me so it's actually been almost a month since my last blog! Yikes!

We went to Panama and re-stamped our passports for another 90 days here. A sweet sister drove down with us to show us the ropes. We are about an hour and a half away from Panama. So we drove down there in the morning and were in line by 8:45. We paid our exit tax of $7 per person at the Banco National and then went to the next building to get stamped out of Costa Rica. Once we got stamped out of Costa Rica we got back into our car and drove down the street to the Panama Immigration office. This area is okay to drive in because its actually still Costa Rica..its weird. We stamped into Panama and then the wait is on. We walked over to McDonalds and the little shopping center while we waited out our time. Technically they can require that you are in Panama for 72 hours  before allowing you to stamp back out but here they fine if you stay a minimum of 3 hours. So out of Panama we stamped and then drove back over to the Costa Rica office and stamped back in. YAY! So this is a bit of a hassle because to enter Panama they require that you have a confirmed plane ticket from Panama back to your country of origin within 180 days from entering, $500 US cash or a bank statement proving you have that much money, and patience because its a pain!!! We just brought our credit card statement showing our available balance and they were fine with that. Fortunately Orbits has a no fee 24 hour cancelation policy so we were able to book our tickets that morning and cancel them that night with no fee. On return into Costa Rica they require proof of exit. For this we used a bus ticket we bought before we moved here. It's good for 1 year and its from San Jose to Panama City and its free to change the dates anytime within that one year. That part was just a phone call so all in all it went pretty smoothly We even met a missionary brother at the immigration area doing informal witnessing.  He had a tract sticking up in his pocket. The only thing you could see was the question,  it seemed like a great conversation starter!  It was so nice to meet him! He even spoke a little bit of english:) Here are a few pictures from that day:

We ran into some friends at a witnessing cart in the City Mall area. These friends were from Panama.



They let us in!!!! As usual Asher is THRILLED to be having his photo taken :)

We live very close to Playa Tortuga which is one of the many places in Costa Rica that turtles migrate to to have their babies. We were so excited to check out the turtle reserve for a little school field trip. That day they happened to have some babies hatch! Here are some photos of us watching the release of Olive Ridley babies!!!! 
The 1st picture is of all of the volunteers and the kids. These volunteers sleep in a make shift base camp to protect the turtle eggs from poachers. 

 They transport these turtles to a safe place after their mom lays the eggs. They rebury them in special areas to protect them. When they hatch, they dig them up and release them into the sea. About 1% will return to Costa Rica to lay future eggs. Sadly many of them do not survive once they go out to sea. That does not stop these people from doing what they do! We met people volunteering from Scotland, Germany, France and so many other places. Volunteers come from 2-4 weeks. Locals can even do a night watch!
 Peyton holding a baby. He was so excited! Kids rarely come to see the release since they never know when it will happen. They loved having kids there. In fact they saw us taking tons of pictures and the microbiologist {In the blue shirt} asked us if they could have copies if the pictures we took to put on their website because they really want more kids to come out and experience this process. They were very kid friendly it was awesome. Although about 20 adults were there, he focused on talking to the kids and letting them hold the babies.


 It was a bit of a trek to get from the reserve to the beach hatching spot.. a little sketchy.. but that made it more fun! We wore boots but Ticos aren't as paranoid as us so he wore sandals:)


 No need to explain the boots really....I mean.. this is Costa Rica! Tromping through these areas there is an obvious risk for snake bites so we took precautions. No worries, not a snake in sight.
 These are a few workers digging up the babies for release.

SO FUN!!!!!!!

Theocratically we are also busy. Tyler gave his first bible reading and I finally joined the school as a house holder. My first part will be in December so I have a little time still. Most of our service is in spanish so I don't have any incredible experiences yet, but soon! We are adjusting really well. I'm so proud of my kids they have been so great. They don't complain {that much} about anything. They must be travelers at heart. We live much simpler now and on much less but they don't seem to care. The only real obstacle has been learning spanish. Of course it seems overwhelming for them at times { I feel the same way}  so I feel like when they tell us their frustrations we can say that we REALLY understand. 

I have learned many things so far from this experience. The first: You have to stay positive! Focus on the benefits of whatever you are doing. There are so many potential studies in spanish here that they are turned away simply due to lack of people to study with them. Those are our future studies:) We are supporting a congregation and that is huge! These are some of the things I tell the kids..and myself when I'm frustrated. Being out of your comfort zone is a little bit of an exciting feeling. Like you don't know if your more scared or excited. 
Second: Take it one day at a time. Like the bible says, tomorrow has its own anxieties. So true! You will  take the joy out of today by focusing on tomorrow. 

Something else I have learned is that my husband is really brave. 
{ Don't tell him, he doesn't read my blog! LoL}
When I think about everything he gave up it really makes me appreciate him. Men, family heads,  have a lot to shoulder, supporting their families. He gave up a job he loved and was really good at to come to a place where he didn't speak the language, with no real prospects for work in the future, all to expand his service to Jehovah and be with us more. I never would have been brave enough to do that. Sometimes I get nervous just going into town because I don't speak very much  spanish. He doesn't. He doesn't worry too much about the future and I envy that. That is exactly why I am trying so hard to do step number one{above}. He has been so adaptable and I know that's why the kids are doing so great! 
Many people have asked me what is difficult or different than I thought it would be. I have never really wanted to answer that. I always want to be encouraging and say, "Oh nothing! Life is peachy keen! It's so great!!!"....but seriously..like anything in life, Satan is always there to push you down. Some dear friends gave us some wonderful advice before we left and shared good and bad experiences with us and that has helped us so much! More than I can express!  It prepared us for the things we might face so that we weren't blind sided or discouraged. Almost everyone who has asked me this question has done so because they were contemplated a move themselves. Being prepared is crucial.  So now I can finally tell you what is hard about living here..

 My best friend had her first baby and I missed it. That was my first real emotional moment here. It's hard leaving people, leaving behind the comfort of close friends. Those relationships take time to build and the thought of starting over with new people can be scary. Life continues after you leave. Lives continue to change the same as if you were still there. Seriously..Time is a thief!:) If I told you that it didn't completely break my heart to miss that moment I would be a big liar and my pants might catch on fire:) That is the hardest part about moving. I can handle the language, the heat and the weird food, even the bugs. But it's the people. They are the most important thing.  I didn't appreciate them all fully until they weren't right there, a car ride away. I didn't allow myself to dwell on it before my move. So many people have impacted my life especially my many friends in the Firgrove congregation. I miss them. But don't worry! It doesn't last. It comes and goes and you never really lose them. My advice, be sad a little, throw yourself a little pity party and then move on..quickly. We are one huge extended family and we are connected no matter how far apart we are:)   

Here she is!!!  Maisie Lillian Grace Amos:) 


On the flip side: The great things about living here are too many to list! So here are a few more pictures of what we have been up to: 

Tyler rigged up his motorcycle to be surf/beach ready. It actually works really well and saves  on gas when he solo surfs. 


Asher got an electric guitar and has been relearning as part of school. He missed playing so much and really loves it. He is taking online lessons. Our gardner was outside working and heard Asher playing and decided to come in and do a little La Bamba jam session to show him how it was done:) 


Peyton and his buddy Fritz! Fritz is from Denmark and was baptized years ago but became inactive for many many years. When he moved to Costa Rica to retire the brothers found him and he became reactivated! His wife is VERY opposed but he still continues on in his spiritual routine and was just appointed as a ministerial servant. He is one of the sweetest brothers I have every met. So kind and humble. You have to hear his story if you visit! 








Asher was in a little incident in service this week. A brother was mapping territory and ..oops! His rig tipped right over. No one was hurt. 

 Assessing the situation..they got it back on 4 wheels eventually and drivable.

 I took some photos on the beach this week. I thought photography was fun... until I tried it with my 3 kids!!! 1 subject = easy! 3 subjects = kids crying
Believe me folks it is not as it appears in magazines!
 These 2 are 2 peas in a pod!
 An amazing Rainbow Eucalyptus
 Some beach shenanigans. Ella with her new friends Kianna and Kristelle. They just moved into our congregation last week. Sweet, Sweet girls!
 More beach shenanigans!
 Boogie boarding when a bogie approached. He was harmless. Most dogs in Costa Rica are.
 He belongs at the beach!
 My little beach beauty.

I mean..of course.. This is where I would go to buy a cat..a grocery store
 We walk down to this river a few times a week. Its about 15 minutes down the hill from our house. The walk back up almost kills me every time. Good times:) But the kids love skipping rocks here
 Just a picture with my phone. No filter needed here, this place is stunning!
 Wellllll...... my stove is broken but we still need our brownie fix. I threw the mix in the crockpot to see what would happen. It's not pretty but we didn't care! They were delicious and gone in 5 minutes!

Talk to you again soon!!! :) 










Monday, September 29, 2014

Buenas from Costa Rica!


It has been an exciting 2 weeks here. We started meeting with our host congregation last weekend. So our meeting is now on Sunday at 5pm and then the spanish have their talk at 6:30. Its a bit of a tricky  transition because the spanish usually arrive while our meeting is still going on and we leave during the song midway through their meeting. Last night we were on the last paragraph during our english meeting and it started pouring rain, thunder, lightning, the works..all of the spanish were trying to huddle outside to avoid interrupting our meeting. Finally it got so bad that they all had to come inside and stand in the back while we finished up our meeting. Tyler gave the final prayer and it was so loud from the rain that we all had to just keep our eyes opened. We couldn't hear a thing!
In the future we will be able to have a full english meeting on Sunday but only if we have a speaker. Otherwise we stay for the spanish public talk. Right now we do know key words like faith, other sheep, anointed and so on. So we listen for those words and get what we can out of the talk that way. We tell the kids to use their imagination:)  We also listen for the bible book, chapter and verse so that we can at least see what scriptures are being used. Honestly, I'm thrilled if I get in the right chapter by the time he stops reading it! The kids are just picking up spanish like crazy! I wish I had their little brains!
Tyler joined the school and he also has his first service meeting part the first week of November. A 10 minute part! I haven't joined the school yet ....but I'm mustering up the courage:) We don't have any meetings this week because the spanish have an assembly this weekend and there are 4 bible studies getting baptized. We are all really thrilled about that! We are planning on attending the morning session and baptism, so exciting!!! Due to us having no meeting we are looking forward to listening into Firgroves meeting this Thursday and Sunday!! OH and speaking of the Assembly..we were suppose to have ours in December but just found out that it has been canceled. So we don't have another one until April. I will say it again..Thats Costa Rica!

In Service news..Wow the territory here is just awesome. I haven't done a whole lot of english service lately but I'm feeling more comfortable speaking at the door in spanish. Sometimes I actually have to open my bible and read directly from my notes but I explain that I'm trying to learn and people are very sweet. I loved the Kingdom ministry article about using the video. I downloaded it in spanish as soon as I saw that KM several weeks ago and it has become a huge part of my ministry! Here is what I say:

(Okay all of you spanish speakers this may not be correct but I get by! Ha Ha)

" Hola, Soy Amber. Somos Testigos de Jehova. Ayudamos a la gente a aprender acerca de la biblia a traves de la casa estudio de la biblia.  Mi espanol es limitado pero estoy aprendiendo.  Puedo mostrarte un video corto que explica mi visita? ..En Espanol"
( After the video I say..)   Gracias Usted puede solicitar un estudio de la biblia gratuitamente desde JW.org
( Also just for fun this is how you say JW.org .. phonetically ..(Hota due-blay OO punto orag) That is NOT spanish lol but allows you to see how it sounds:) Much different than simply saying JW.ORG:)

Translation:" Hi, Im Amber. We are Jehovahs Witnesses. We help people learn about the bible through home bible study. My spanish is limited but Im learning. Can I show you a short video that explains my visit. In Spanish. "
Thank you! ( I give them the tract on the website at this point and point to the website address on the back) You can request a free bible study by going to JW.Org.

Some of my wording is probably incorrect and sometimes people do correct me but they ALWAYS listen. I mean always. I have been able to show this video in spanish to so many people and place literature along with it. Usually it ends in a hug:) ..and usually the tighter the hug, the worst my spanish was. :) After my presentation,  I would love to offer a bible study and Im working up to that but for right now I feel pretty good about what I am able to do. So if you find someone that speaks  another language and are able to leave them anything with the website info on it..you may have started a study! Ya never know:)

I have also talked to a lot of english as well and have been able to have some really nice conversations. The problem is that most of them don't live here permanently. The up side though is that when we do find them, because they are on vacation,  they are relaxed and willing to listen and talk. I think a lot about that scripture at 1 Corinthians 3:6. Some plant, some water, but Jehovah makes it grow. It has a whole new meaning for me now that I am in the situation that I am in. The ministry is so different here and I really rely on Jehovah. A lot more than I did before so that was eye opening for me. When I walk up to a door I am so nervous because I can really only say what is on my sheet of paper or what I have memorized. Somehow thats been enough, every time. It really keeps me motivated everyday to learn spanish even faster because there are so many people hungry for the truth here.  Okay thats it for this installment! I know I sound like a broken record but thank you for the emails and for keeping us a part of your lives:) We have the greatest friends and we miss you all so much but its awesome to hear all of the wonderful things everyone else is doing! We have so many friends moving to other countries, areas, language groups and halls that need assistance, auxiliary pioneering and making adjustments during the week to support others who want to! It just shows that Jehovahs people are willing to take on any assignment Jehovah has for them:) Love you all!!!!!!

This is Jason. He's teaching us spanish. He is a bible study and a great teacher himself! Every Sunday he has a spanish class for all of the English friends. 

Out in service. The awesome view of the whales tale  in the background! 

Tylers new Pride and joy:)

Our car load heading up for a day at a waterfall
 
A snippet of a Costa Rican bamboo forest.. it's huge! 


Sometimes folks get stuck.. and we have to weigh down the car and pull each other out
 Waterfall day! 

After waterfall dinner:) 
The weekly market 

He can't take a normal picture anymore, silly pictures are all I get now
Tico coffee👍
 
This is our cat.. I'm not sure how this happened ..

but I made sure this also happened..  She knows I mean it too 

service .. near a crocodile River..!! Don't worry I had them take this photo quick:) 
Costa Rica! It really looks like this! Beautiful. I still pinch myself, can't believe I live here!!!! 



















Sunday, September 14, 2014

School SnAkeS & Other Stuff

Hello everyone!! Well we started home school last week and it was pretty good! I have had to make a few changes to the kids curriculum because I was way overloading them!I have heard that this is a typical Homeschool newbie mistake. So now that I am back down to reality things are good. We did try and enroll the kids in school down here but that proved to be very challenging. They want so much paperwork its ridiculous! School here is only in spanish but other need greater families have really encouraged us to put them in school here and continue some of their homeschool curriculum also. When we mentioned this to the kids they were so excited. They really want to go to school to learn spanish! I had no idea. I was pretty impressed with their attitude. Kids are so open to change and new things. No wonder Jesus used them as an example! School here runs from February- November. We have stayed on a U.S. schedule for our homeschool program so they have started 1st, 4th, and 6th grade this past week. If they go to school in February they would start those same grades but continue in the U.S. homeschool  program on the same schedule. It may be tricky. We are still deciding on that whole situation. Okay enough about that..

We had our first snake sighting and it was in our house! Off of our bedroom is a screened in sitting room and this is where our computer is. The kids were in there watching a movie with the light off. I went in there and turned the light on and there he was just chilling..kind of looked like he was watching the movie. Well because we are "new", we cannot spot a venomous snake VS non venomous snake just by sight so we had to chop him :( So sad. He was a baby about 1 foot long.  Afterwards we identified it and it appears to have been a baby Tree Boa. We think it got in through an open door. That will never happen again! I was a little concerned that my kids weren't that scared honestly!

The congregation is doing well. As usual we still have some changes going on. When the CO came around we got 3 new Ministerial Servants! So we now have 4 servants and 2 elders in just the english group. As a whole we have 6 servants and 4 elders.

We found out this week that a couple is coming from France in November! They are, of course, the talk of the hall now. We love when people visit or move here! We just love people here:) We also have a family of 5 coming in December that were here last year. They are moving here permanently. And of course my sweet friends Sara  and Kressa will be here soon!!!! Sara for about 4-5 months, and Kressa for 1 month. Can't Wait!!!! We met a sister from Florida ( @ our meeting) today who was here  last year. She is here for 1 month helping out a congregation about an hour away. She was so sweet! She is hoping to come back and serve in Uvita again next year if finances permit. I hope so!! It really is awesome to see so many young sisters who are not afraid to come out here and serve. They are so brave. I really admire them.  Not to leave the brothers out..we have one servant in our hall who is also younger and has chosen to be here where the need is great. He is currently in the states. I haven't met him yet but he has been in Africa at the International Convention in Zimbabwe for 5 weeks and now saving up to come back in a few months! The things these young people can experience from choosing this life of full time service is amazing. It really does change their whole life. Jehovah opens so many doors for them.

This week and last week we have had no speaker at our Sunday meeting ( In English) so we have only been able to do the Watchtower study. The spanish have this happen often also. There are usually 15-20 people at the English meeting each week. Its hard to get speakers, many halls are stretched pretty thin around here. Like...so thin that if you visit us..your giving a part of some sort... I'm totally serious. :) Because of this the branch is trying something new with some groups, ours is one of those groups. Soon we will start to have our meeting right before spanish on the weekend. Right now Spanish has their meeting on Saturday and we have our meeting on Sunday.  So starting soon, we haven't really been told when, we will have our meeting on Saturday at 5:00 and the Spanish talk will start at 6:30 and then we will have a spanish Watchtower study. So its an interesting arraignment. We don't have a back room so that has complicated things. I'm wondering what is going to happen in the future because our Kingdom hall is at full capacity right now. Per our branch diagram on the back board we can legally only hold 9 more people in the building than we have now. There has been talk of putting chairs outside the hall next to the windows! Ummm I dont know about that! But apparently thats what ya do here when ya reach capacity. True story! Seriously..They have done it in the past,  years ago before spanish split. Don't even get me started on my problems with that..night time bugs to name one..BIG ones that fly and jump and ..YUCK! I imagine the sisters and kids would  have seats inside..I HOPE:)

Yesterday we had a very bad storm! To get to our house you have to cross a small bridge but when it rains really bad the water comes up over and covers the bridge and its impassable. This almost happened yesterday and once last week. Yesterday our house got struck by lightening and it zapped  some of our electrical outlets and fried our modem. Costa Rican electrical wiring is sketchy anyway so if any other factor comes into play it just flat won't work. One caught on fire the other day when I turned a fan on..LoL Costa Rica I love you!  On top of that Tyler got a flat tire yesterday in service and on Sunday nothing is open. Tomorrow is Costa Rican Independence day so everything is still closed. Of course the jack he needed to remove the spar tire and put it on was missing from the car we bought! Costa Rica! Thats what we say every time..We love you Costa Rica but you do things  S..L..O..w..l..y.. Very slowly. So fortunately the house we caretake for has a car we can use so we were saved!!

We have been doing a lot of spanish service since we got here. With the campaign in August we were really pushing to help complete the spanish territory. Last weekend we did some english territory and that was great! We had been given the direction to go ahead and finish our english territory with the campaign tract in this area.  We met some very nice people. People here have such interesting stories about how they got here. It's very neat to chit chat about life with them. Almost always they will take the literature. This week we are going to add some more service into our schedule. Now that we are settled into our house and getting school under control we want to add a midweek day for service to our calendars this month. Hopefully next month we will be able to add more service time in. We are pacing ourselves though because learning the language is our priority right now. The more spanish we know the better we can learn from the meetings and the more people we can preach to. We have a simple 1 line presentation right now and then we say have a nice day. Its so hard for me sometimes because I want to do everything just perfectly when I speak spanish (I'm a perfectionist and I really hate it)  So a sister took me aside and said, " Just say it Amber! You won't learn until you let go and start speaking incorrectly. That's how you learn". Ugh!  She was right. I am so happy she told me that. So sometimes I don't know what I'm saying. It is humbling and sometimes embarrassing but I feel like I'm making progress. Someone told me don't measure your progress by how you did last week measure it by how you did 6 months ago..6 months ago!!! Okay ..that was a hard pill to swallow but its true. Big changes take time and patience. That advice came from a gringo who learned spanish too.. so theres hope for us yet!!!!

Thanks for all the emails and pictures!! We didn't bring a lot of pictures with us:( The next time we go into the city we are going to get them all printed so we can put them around our house and in albums so please keep sending us your pictures. We wish we had brought more because  those make our house feel a little bit more like home, so keep em' coming please!!! Until next time, Adios Amigos!

We tried to tell them that that's not what a surf board is for .. 
2 sweet little sisters from Spanish giving a talk
Peyton & his buddy Mylos
Service pics... I had to choose between rickity bridge or washed our creek..

Asher & Tyler are loving surfing and boogie boarding 
Snake intruder.. 
This is our Gardner Fransisco taking Tyler to the property we have to check ok as part of our care taking job. it's a but rural...
Care packages are hard to get here but we got one!!! The kids were thrilled ..

This is the bridge to our house but here it just looks like a stream!!
Ella with her watchtower.. December cover Costa Rica!! 
a little cuteness❤️❤️
This was a bridge to a house in service! 
Can't remember if I added this one.. Asher running mics:) 
A little congregation bowling! 
A sloth trying to cross the highway
Some things haven't changed.. Legos are still his go to toy 
Ella getting some backyard surfing lessons